Chiều nay Bác Tâm đã vĩnh viễn ra đi. Bác là chị ruột của mẹ vợ tôi. Tôi gặp bác mỗi năm vào dịp họp mặt gia đình bên vợ. Bác hiền hậu và thân thiện. Trong gia đình ai cũng quý mến bác. Tuy là cháu rể, tôi cũng không ngoại lệ. Nghe tin bác từ trần tuy buồn nhưng đời người đến lúc cũng phải tận. Bác cũng đã sống đến 90 năm cuộc đời. Giờ thể xác của bác sẽ trở về cát bụi và linh hồn của bác sẽ được giải thoát. Bác hãy yên nghỉ nhé.

Virginia started early voting last Friday. We came and we left. The line was too long. We came back today and there was no line at all. We cast our ballots in less than five minutes. We did our civic duty. Now we just sit back and wait for the result.

Whether you will vote early or on election day, go vote. If you are still undecided, it is not too late to do your research. I already made up mind. I voted for Kamala Harris and Tim Walz for president and vice president, Tim Kaine for US Senator, and Gerry Connolly for 11^th Congressional District Congressman.

I suppose I am a Democrat.

Sau những album nhạc Trịnh với tiếng đàn guitar mộc mạc của cha cô, Tuyết Phượng thay đổi phong cách với một sản phẩm jazz cùng nhạc sĩ Phạm Thanh Danh.

Ca khúc do chính cô viết, “Khu vườn sân thượng”, dễ thương từ giai điệu waltz nhẹ đến ca từ đầy thiên nhiên: “Một cây chanh, hai nhành cần tây, ba bẹ cải xoăn / Cà chua bi leo giàn vươn xa thêm nhánh / Vườn rau nay rất xanh / đâm chồi ra hoa lớn nhanh”. Chắc chỉ những ai thích trồng trọt như vợ tôi mới cảm nhận được những gì cây trái trong vườn.

“Tự nhiên” (sáng tác của Cao Minh, Chi Lan, Tuyết Phượng) được hòa âm theo điệu swing nhộn nhịp: “Tự nhiên như đôi chân đặt trên đất”. Đáng chú ý là phần cô luyến láy không lời. Hơi ngạc nhiên là cách cô scat khá chuẩn.

Với ca khúc “Người tự do”của mình, Tuyết Phượng chia sẻ cách sống thong thả: “Tôi chẳng cần lo có ngày mai đâu / Chẳng cần nghĩ lâu dài / Pha tách trà thêm chút mật ong nóng / Tôi ngồi đây ngắm trăng”. Phải chi tôi có thể sống tự do và không bị ràng buộc thì hay biết mấy.

Yêu đúng người là một album không chỉ sáng tạo về phần âm nhạc mà còn nhắc nhở người nghe những điều giản dị trong cuộc sống. Cám ơn Tuyết Phượng và Phạm Thanh Danh.

Nghe album Em•Me của Mỹ Anh mà tôi xém bị tẩu hỏa nhập ma. Không biết cô ca tiếng Anh hay tiếng Việt. Cô hát theo phong cách r&b nên cách phát âm tiếng Việt của cô nghe như tiếng Anh, nhưng lại không phải ca từ Anh. Chẳng hạn như ca khúc “Thật thà”, cô hát câu, “Nếu chia ly đôi đường là chuyện vốn dĩ”, mà tôi nghe thành, “Nếu journey đôi đường là chuyện vốn dĩ”. Ca khúc của cô lẫn tiếng Việt cùng tiếng Anh: “Cầm tay em đi, ôm em đi / Gọi tên em đi, hôn lên mi / I’ll show you that loving you can be easy, so easy”. Đúng với tựa đề nghe nó “Thật Honest”.

Reading Wendy MacNaughton’s How to Say Goodbye brought back the vivid memory of my mother’s last moment on earth.

After they pulled the plugs on her, we had less than a minute to say goodbye. I spoke to her in Vietnamese, “Mẹ, please let yourself go. I love you and you will always be in my heart. Goodbye for now.” A tear rolled down her eye. She stopped breathing. My mother left this world.

This illustrated little book is an honest, heartfelt, and helpful guide on how to say goodbye to someone you love. It’s a gift to see the journey to death through MacNaughton’s visuals and observations. “It’s very courageous to sit with someone while they’re dying.” She wrote, “But you can’t fix this. You’re not in charge. The person dying is in charge.”

Saying goodbye is not easy, but “sometimes it’s just sitting and being there.”

In February, I took a ski lesson at Whitetail. Since it was on a weekday, the snow school was not so busy and I requested to learn carving; therefore, I was assigned to just one instructor. It was a private lesson for the price of a group lesson. While taking lesson, the instructor encouraged me to teach.

I was not serious about it, but her words stayed with me. Last week, on a whim, I applied for a part-time position for a non-certified ski or snowboard instructor. I wrote an honest, enthusiastic cover letter about my love and passion for both skiing and snowboarding. My story paid off. I got accepted two days later.

Without a doubt, I am excited about the opportunities not only to teach, but also to learn. One of the perks for the job is getting free lessons. Just the thought of learning, teaching, and playing on the snow reinvigorated me. I couldn’t wait to share the new endeavor with my wife. Of course, she supported me. I tried to convince her this might be the beginning of my dream career. That was when she brought me back to reality and reminded me of my responsibilities. Right, I have four kids to raise.

The gist of the story is that I can do anything I want as long as I keep my full-time job. It’s all good. I still am enjoying being the director of design and web services. Skiing and snowboarding will keep my body active and my mind strong. It’s a perfect balance between sitting in front of the computer and spending time outdoors.

For a while, we had a hard time removing the key from the door knob. Today, the kids had an early dismissal, but the rain prevented us from the skatepark. I decided to replace the locks.

I bought the exterior single-cylinder deadbolt and keyed entry door knob combo pack by Kwikset. I had some issues with the screws so I drove to Lowe’s to get some screw anchors, but it didn’t have the right size. Picked up the Reliabilt combo pack as well just incase.

I drove Home Depot to see if I could get the right anchors, which it had. The Kwikset’s deadbolt worked fine, but the door knob didn’t fit right. I switched to Reliabilt instead. The cost was about $30.

More than 700 national security leaders endorse Harris:

This election is a choice between serious leadership and vengeful impulsiveness. It is a choice between democracy and authoritarianism. Vice President Harris defends America’s democratic ideals, while former President Donald Trump endangers them.

Yes, the choice is between democracy and authoritarianism. Trump is an authoritarian and a danger to democracy.

I have been blogging for half of my life; therefore, I wanted to know how to Write for Life. The gist of the book is writing the “Morning Pages.” Cameron writes:

Every morning, set your alarm thirty minutes early and write, longhand, three eight and a half by eleven-inch pages about anything and everything that comes to mind. I always say I would never stand between anyone and their morning coffee, but try to get to the page as quickly as possible-don’t spend forty-five minutes brewing the perfect cup. The faster you get to the page, the better the pages will work for you. Avoid the phone, computer, and email until you have finished your pages. They will act as windshield wipers, clearing away what stands between you and your day.

It turns out that I have been using this method for years. Instead of writing on paper, I type right into this box.

Rebecca Bratten Weiss writes for the National Catholic Reporter:

Politicians who are ignorant about women’s bodies — and unaware of the many complicated, deeply personal, often traumatizing situations women face in reproductive health — think they can make abortion go away simply by denying access. But they can’t. Abortion will not vanish because of bans, even when those bans come with heavy penalties. Studies indicate that abortion rates in nations where it is legal and nations where it is illegal are about the same. What appears to be a greater driver of abortion rates is income level. Lower income nations where abortion is illegal tend to have much higher abortion rates than higher income nations where it is legal.

Anyone who is serious about reducing abortion rates will focus on building a strong economy that serves the working and middle classes, with robust safety nets and accessible, affordable resources. This is not new information. People, myself included, have been writing about this for years.

So why do pro-life leaders refuse to listen? Roe has been gone for more than two years and pro-life leaders have done nothing to increase health care access or financial protections for low-income women. Should we assume that they are not serious about dealing with abortion, since they haven’t put any effort into doing the things that actually work? Are they, perhaps, actually invested in harming women, since that’s one area in which these bans are effective?

The entire article is worth-reading, especially if you are religious.