No More George

Every morning you would say “George” when I sat you down for breakfast. You started to watch Curious George when grandma was taken care of you. What hooked me into Curious George is the incorporation of jazz. The episode that caught my attention was the one in which George and the dog were lost and they used their ears to find their way back. They remembered passing by the busker who was blowing his trumpet so they would listen that sound to figure out where they were at. Another episode was a band demonstrated the technique of singing at different tempos (from half time to double time). Another favorite episode of mine was the one George joined the family Latin band. He had to go around looking for a place for the band to play.

Yes, you pulled me into George and we could sit and watch him all day, but the conflict in schedule had prevent us from watching our favorite show. Still, I love it when I make the monkey sound “Uh uh ah ah” and you would repeat “ah ah.”

Rainy Day

Our trip to the zoo was cancelled due to the rain. We headed to the mall instead. We stopped at Barnes & Noble first so you could have the whole train table for yourself before other kids arrived. When we were there, however, three kids and their mothers already in the kid section. Like us, the rain had also ruined their plans.

Before you joined in, only the four-year-old boy at the train table and he had about five or six cars at one side of the table. You came in at the other side and only picked up one car and it happened to be one of the oldest and most beat-up cars on the track. Still the four-year-od ran over and claimed it. His mom taught him a lesson on sharing and she did a wonderful job. The boy didn’t listen so she took him home. They negotiated before she allowed him back in. He could only play with four cars. He picked the four new and fancy cars while you were still hanging on your old train. Another boy and girl joined the table and there were around three or three and a half. The three year-old-boy tried to snatch your car, but you held on tight to it and didn’t let go. His mom didn’t say nothing. He went over to the girl and snatch hers. The girl fought back and the push and shove occurred. At this point, the boy’s mom ran over to break them up. The girl’s mom were browsing at the books heard her daughter’s voice so she ran over. She made her apologize to the boy even though she didn’t do anything wrong. She obeyed her mom and said “I am sorry.” She even got a two-minute time out. I felt bad for her. On the other corner, the four-year-old boy was being nice and shared a new, fancy car with you, but you just held on to that old, beat-up car.

After sensing the boredom from you, I took you to the indoor playground, which was packed. The funny thing was that most of the kids who entered the playground took off their shoes, but the parents were walking around with shoes on. You didn’t like the playground much. Was it too crowded or you weren’t in the mood for it? You just kept walking out to the train station. I assumed that you wanted to ride the train so I bought two tickets and off we went. The driver drove us around the circle two times then dropped us off and picked up the next patrons. I can’t even imagine driving that train in the circle all day. Not sure how the guy does it.

We went to the food court for lunch. After checking all the different types of food, we went for Chinese. I thought you might like fried rice, but you didn’t. You made a huge mess, but didn’t eat much. By noon, both of us already bored with the train table and the playground so the only thing left to do was heading home. I gave you a bottle of milk and you only drank half before fallen asleep. I parked the car, but didn’t take you inside the house. The rain was still heavy so I didn’t want to wake you up or get you wet so we stayed in the car. I listened to Miles Davis and read The Last Miles while you were sleeping. I am as obsessed with Miles as much as you’re obsessed with milk. I got tired and dozed off as well.

You got up two hours later and we went into the house. I took you to bed and let you finish the left over bottle. Once you were done, you handed me the bottle and said, “more.” How could I say no too that even though mom told me not to give you too much milk so you could eat? You didn’t go back to sleep nor you wanted to eat. I thought we could do something productive together so we did laundry and cleaned the house. Your curiosity motivated me to spend time with you as well as getting something done around the house. Thanks for being such a helpful kid.

No Mommy No Cry

Taking you to school each the morning has been quite a pleasure experience. You push the buttons to open the doors. You swipe my card to check us in. You smile at the guard and the front desk lady. You greet Ms Tam, your wonderful Vietnamese teacher when she says, “Hi con!” You come to her and blow me kisses goodbye.

Yesterday, mommy took you in because I had to carry your box of diaper along with your lunch and milk. The result was that you cried and hung on to her. You didn’t want to let go. I took you to class today and again no crying. Mommy and I were joking in the car saying that kids don’t lie and you sure show who you love more. Your mom is very proud and touched by your affection for her.

Your school will be closed again tomorrow and Friday. I will take a vacation day tomorrow to be with you and I am looking forward to it. We should do something fun. Let’s hit the zoo. What do you think? Can you say “zoo”?

You Saved Me

Last Thursday, you and I spent the whole day together while mom at work. I took you to Tyson Corner Center so you can play with your favorite train table at Barnes & Noble. We took 66 coming from DC and busted the exit to get to the mall. Four police cars on the left and five cars were stopped on the right. I tried to just roll along as if I hadn’t committed any violation. My seatbelt was on so I thought I was save. The cop stopped me and yelled because I didn’t see his hand signal. He peeped into the backseat and saw you enjoying your bottle and he smiled, “You can go.” Later on I have learned that 66 is exclusively for HOV and I had no idea. You saved my butt kiddo.

Out Sick

You’ve got mail. From your sweet new toddler teacher, Ms. Ester:

Hello.

Just wanted to know how Dao is doing.
We missed him very much during the day, he is really adorable
Hope he gets better soon.
Send him my love
Have a great evening
Ester

What were you doing yesterday? You had a bit of breakfast at Panera Bread and then you and mom took me to work. After that you spent the beautiful day with mommy roaming free around the Monument. I joined you for lunch before you headed home and slept in the car. Mom and you came back to pick me up so I didn’t have to be jammed into the train ride.

Isn’t it great to hang out with mommy all day? But then again, you get to learn and interact with others while you’re at school. You’re very popular at the school and everyone knows that you scream the loudest in the morning for about five minutes, but the become one of the sweetest boys for the rest of the day who wave, dance and blow kisses to everyone. Thanks for being such a awesome kid.

Sent Home

You got sent home on your second day in the toddler class. Your teacher called me and said you had diarrhea. I came to pick you up. I peaked inside the little glass window on the door and saw you we were playing by yourself. You caught me and immediately dropped everything and rushed to the door. What a great feeling that was.

You slept in the car when we were home so I had to carry you and the car seat inside the house. Your mom and I logged back to work while you were sleeping. I got some work done before you got up. You continued to play around the house while we were working. For being such a good boy, we took you out to the playground and had a fun, relaxing evening. One lady said that you have a face that could be kiss all day. I agreed all the way. Not just all day but all night too. I love kissing those soft cheeks of yours.

After the playground, we took home some Pho and you enjoyed it. You went straight to bed at 8:30. The play time must have worn you out. I don’t think you had diarrhea. We fed you milk, cereal and yogurt in the morning and the combination might have caused the liquidity. In any rate, you’ll get to spend the whole day with mom tomorrow. Lucky boy!

Acting Up

You sure know how to put on a scene if things don’t go your way. When you were about six months, you tried to bang your head on the floor when we don’t give you what you want. As a protective parent, I couldn’t let you do that to yourself. I stopped you and tried to calm you down. In return you took it for granted. One time I just let you bang your forehead on the hardwood floor and you immediately realized that your head is not as solid as the floor. You learned your lesson and stopped using that trick.

Lately you had found a new one. If you don’t like something, you would slide on the floor and kick your feet. You don’t just slide on any floor though. You run to the rug or carpet to do it. You figured it would be less painful to do it on something soft. We just got a kick of of you whenever you try to pull that off. It’s quite hilarious. We just laughed and you laughed back and forgot the whole misbehavior attitude. You’re quite a character, son.

Watching you eat Canh Kho Hoa (bitter gourd soup) today was quite a pleasure. Your aunt can’t take the bitterness of it, yet you just scoop it up and slurp it down. Now that is my boy. You also begin to be interested in books. You like me to read Dr. Seuss to you. Your current favorite book is Hand, Hand, Fingers, Thumb. You like it when I make the “ditty dum dum” sound. You also have a great sense of rhythm and you could dance to any beat including Le Quyen’s version of “Han Mac Tu” and Thanh Ha’s version of “Tinh La Soi To.”

Independence

Everyday you came home from daycare, you got food all over your clothes and even some stain on your face too. Seeing you holding the spoon feeding yourself, I could imagine how it all happened.

You’re showing your independence by not letting us spoon feed you anymore. You rather do it yourself even though most of the food makes on instead of inside your belly. Watching you focusing on getting the food from the bowl to your mouth is a real joy. You scoop up a little at a time and sometimes nothing in your spoon at all. With frustration, you just dump the bowl onto your face like you did today with Bun Bo Hue. It was also hilarious they way you torn up the pig thigh after watching me struggling with it myself.

In addition of feeding yourself, you also like to brush your teeth all by yourself. You got mad when I tried to help you out. I am liking the independent attitude of yours. Keep that up, son. Keep being independent. Keep smiling. Keep blow kisses. Keep weaving. Keep walking freely and explore anything that you find intriguing. Seeing you grow and enjoying your life are all that I could ever ask for from a father.

Fatherhood Memory

Grandparents will arrive later today to stay with you for a week. Mom was in the kitchen making bun bo hue and I was cleaning up the house. You chose to hang around me. My guess was that you were intrigued by the vacuum. For whatever reason, thanks for keeping me companied. You sure are a fast learner. You already figured out where the power button after watching me turned it on once. You pressed the button and ran toward me. I guess the sound was not that pleasant.

Spending time cleaning up the house with you reminded me of my father. When I was a kid, my dad was not around often. He would only come home about a couple days a month; therefore, all the time we spent together I could remember clearly. One time he was home before Lunar New Year so he was cleaning up the house and I was also hanging around him. He was sweeping and singing to me a song that I could only remember a few lines, “Co loi khong nhan loi la hen / co loi ma nhan loi la ngoan.” Basically what the song trying to tell you is that if you do something wrong and you don’t admit it then you’re a coward. But if you could admit it than you’re good. He told me to repeat the song. So I did, but I changed the words a bit: “Co loi khong nhan loi la khon / Co loi ma nhan loi la ngu” (If you do something wrong and you don’t admitted then you’re smart / If you do something wrong, but you admitted than you’re a fool.”

Obviously my dad was furious. I could still remember the reaction on his face. He almost whipped my ass, but it was closed to New Year so he let me off the hook. I could see the little naughty in you just like me. Like father like son.

Last Day of Class

Today is your last day being a baby bear. You’ll be off tomorrow and get to stay with grandparents for an entire week before join the growing giraffes. Snapshots of you were posted on the front door this morning and you weren’t crying when I dropped you off. This is a good sign and I hope that you’ll enjoy your new class and get to meet new friends.