Duke and May Had a Great Time at Longwood Garden

Unlike their first met up at the National Aquarium in Baltimore, Dao and May enjoyed each other’s company much more at Longwood Gardens. The weather was gorgeous, the place was not too crowded, and the “twin” (someone asked if they were) hit it off as soon as we buckled the two in the stroller together.

Once May’s mom gave Duke a piece of dry persimmon, he didn’t mind that May was leaning on him. He was just indulging himself with the fruit snack. Whenever Dao is interested in something, he is very focused. When he was playing with the water fountain in the children garden, he was just concentrating on what he was doing all by himself. In the mean time, May was running all over the place and splashing water all over herself. I thought Dao was active, but May was like a bunny energizer. She was interacting, laughing and talking the entire time. Love her smiles and the way she “wow” and “ah” the whole time I was pushing her on the stroller. Even at end of the day, May was still running on spare battery. The shot of her resting on the stroller is priceless. The lil babe was adorable.

Before we headed out, Duke and May gave each other a kiss even though they were both exhausted. Isn’t that so sweet? Thanks to Linh for joining us as well as the dried fruit, pasta and chicken for the kids. Duke was eating the entire time, which was fantastic. It was indeed a great playdate.

Hot Boy

Yes you, my lil hot boy. You love to throw around the word “nong” (hot) lately. Trying to put you into the bathtub, you’ll say “nong.” Trying to feed you some soup, you’ll say “nong” even though I made it warm. Trying to wash your butt, you’ll also say “nong.”

At night I want to hold you in my arms, but you just stick to your mom like a leech. The other day you woke after an afternoon nap and still hanging to mommy. I walked in and asked, “di tu tu train khong?” You jump over and hang on to me.

It seems like you no longer interested in toys at home. Instead, you find something else to play with. You went into the kitchen cabinet, took out a pot cover, rolled it around the house. You play with anything you could get your hand on except for your toys. I guess we can stop spending on toys. We actually don’t buy much toys for you. Grandparents, aunts and uncles always get something. You’re a lucky boy.

The Lil Devil Returned

The Lil Devil was back because he looked so darn cute. Comparing from last year, he looked much more evil this year and of course cute too. The Lil Devil went out treat-or-treating last night. He ran off on the first two houses, but got into the groove afterward. After getting the treat, he blew a kiss back. What a sweet Lil Devil.

18 Months

You turned 18 months a couple days ago, but already behaving like a terrible two. We went out for dinner on Monday and not only you refused to eat, but also acted up when we didn’t let you play. You did the same on Tuesday when we were at a Vietnamese restaurant. You did much better when we were having dinner at home yesterday. I take that you enjoy staying home more so we’ll stay home from now on.

You talk and babbling quite a bit these days. You mix both English and Vietnamese. We’re trying our best to speak exclusively Vietnamese at home, but you also pick up English at school. Words you use the most are: “ball,” “bóng,” “more” and “Bac Tram”. “Ball” is your favorite word and you associate any rounded object to it. You call out “bóng” whenever you spot a balloon. We just love the way you accent that diacritical mark. You say “more” when you want more milk, which is your favorite diet. You can drink milk the whole day without food. As for “Bac Tram,” you just woke up one day and repeat the words for an hour or so. I can see why though. Bac Tram treats you really well; therefore, she must be your favorite auntie.

I am sorry that I can no longer dropping you off or picking you up from school. I have to leave before you wake up and I can’t make it back on time before you get out of school. I rely on your mom to handle both and I am feeling guilty about it. I deeply appreciate all of her work and you should be thankful as well. I am looking into moving you to a daycare near work so we could ride the train together. JCCVA is a great daycare and you are enjoying it. Your friends like you and your teachers adore you, but the location is not so convenience for me. We’ll see.

First Night Without You

This is our first night apart. I am not sure if I could sleep tonight. Coming home from work not seeing you and mommy already feels like I am missing a part of me. The house is so empty without you. I already miss hearing you talk, watching you sleep and holding you. I am sure you’ll have a good time with mom and grandparents. Be good, eat a lot of food and please let mom brush your teeth. I can’t wait to see you again tomorrow night.

Dao Met May

The two kids who were born on the same day finally met in real life. Dao and May seem to get along well. They even held hands. We also got to meet May’s parents who married on the same day as us. We met up at the National Aquarium in Baltimore. With the $5-special admission, the aquarium was packed with more human than fish. Dao enjoyed his visit, but he got tired around 8:30pm so we headed home. It was a nice play date for the kids and we would love to arrange something like this again. If you come to D.C., let us know.

No More George

Every morning you would say “George” when I sat you down for breakfast. You started to watch Curious George when grandma was taken care of you. What hooked me into Curious George is the incorporation of jazz. The episode that caught my attention was the one in which George and the dog were lost and they used their ears to find their way back. They remembered passing by the busker who was blowing his trumpet so they would listen that sound to figure out where they were at. Another episode was a band demonstrated the technique of singing at different tempos (from half time to double time). Another favorite episode of mine was the one George joined the family Latin band. He had to go around looking for a place for the band to play.

Yes, you pulled me into George and we could sit and watch him all day, but the conflict in schedule had prevent us from watching our favorite show. Still, I love it when I make the monkey sound “Uh uh ah ah” and you would repeat “ah ah.”

Rainy Day

Our trip to the zoo was cancelled due to the rain. We headed to the mall instead. We stopped at Barnes & Noble first so you could have the whole train table for yourself before other kids arrived. When we were there, however, three kids and their mothers already in the kid section. Like us, the rain had also ruined their plans.

Before you joined in, only the four-year-old boy at the train table and he had about five or six cars at one side of the table. You came in at the other side and only picked up one car and it happened to be one of the oldest and most beat-up cars on the track. Still the four-year-od ran over and claimed it. His mom taught him a lesson on sharing and she did a wonderful job. The boy didn’t listen so she took him home. They negotiated before she allowed him back in. He could only play with four cars. He picked the four new and fancy cars while you were still hanging on your old train. Another boy and girl joined the table and there were around three or three and a half. The three year-old-boy tried to snatch your car, but you held on tight to it and didn’t let go. His mom didn’t say nothing. He went over to the girl and snatch hers. The girl fought back and the push and shove occurred. At this point, the boy’s mom ran over to break them up. The girl’s mom were browsing at the books heard her daughter’s voice so she ran over. She made her apologize to the boy even though she didn’t do anything wrong. She obeyed her mom and said “I am sorry.” She even got a two-minute time out. I felt bad for her. On the other corner, the four-year-old boy was being nice and shared a new, fancy car with you, but you just held on to that old, beat-up car.

After sensing the boredom from you, I took you to the indoor playground, which was packed. The funny thing was that most of the kids who entered the playground took off their shoes, but the parents were walking around with shoes on. You didn’t like the playground much. Was it too crowded or you weren’t in the mood for it? You just kept walking out to the train station. I assumed that you wanted to ride the train so I bought two tickets and off we went. The driver drove us around the circle two times then dropped us off and picked up the next patrons. I can’t even imagine driving that train in the circle all day. Not sure how the guy does it.

We went to the food court for lunch. After checking all the different types of food, we went for Chinese. I thought you might like fried rice, but you didn’t. You made a huge mess, but didn’t eat much. By noon, both of us already bored with the train table and the playground so the only thing left to do was heading home. I gave you a bottle of milk and you only drank half before fallen asleep. I parked the car, but didn’t take you inside the house. The rain was still heavy so I didn’t want to wake you up or get you wet so we stayed in the car. I listened to Miles Davis and read The Last Miles while you were sleeping. I am as obsessed with Miles as much as you’re obsessed with milk. I got tired and dozed off as well.

You got up two hours later and we went into the house. I took you to bed and let you finish the left over bottle. Once you were done, you handed me the bottle and said, “more.” How could I say no too that even though mom told me not to give you too much milk so you could eat? You didn’t go back to sleep nor you wanted to eat. I thought we could do something productive together so we did laundry and cleaned the house. Your curiosity motivated me to spend time with you as well as getting something done around the house. Thanks for being such a helpful kid.

No Mommy No Cry

Taking you to school each the morning has been quite a pleasure experience. You push the buttons to open the doors. You swipe my card to check us in. You smile at the guard and the front desk lady. You greet Ms Tam, your wonderful Vietnamese teacher when she says, “Hi con!” You come to her and blow me kisses goodbye.

Yesterday, mommy took you in because I had to carry your box of diaper along with your lunch and milk. The result was that you cried and hung on to her. You didn’t want to let go. I took you to class today and again no crying. Mommy and I were joking in the car saying that kids don’t lie and you sure show who you love more. Your mom is very proud and touched by your affection for her.

Your school will be closed again tomorrow and Friday. I will take a vacation day tomorrow to be with you and I am looking forward to it. We should do something fun. Let’s hit the zoo. What do you think? Can you say “zoo”?

You Saved Me

Last Thursday, you and I spent the whole day together while mom at work. I took you to Tyson Corner Center so you can play with your favorite train table at Barnes & Noble. We took 66 coming from DC and busted the exit to get to the mall. Four police cars on the left and five cars were stopped on the right. I tried to just roll along as if I hadn’t committed any violation. My seatbelt was on so I thought I was save. The cop stopped me and yelled because I didn’t see his hand signal. He peeped into the backseat and saw you enjoying your bottle and he smiled, “You can go.” Later on I have learned that 66 is exclusively for HOV and I had no idea. You saved my butt kiddo.

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