While our 2018 Toyota Sienna LE is still at the dealer shop, I have been driving a loaner car to work. Instead of parking in the garage, I parked on the street using the ParkMobile app.

Yesterday on my way to work, I needed to take a shit so bad that I didn’t complete the payment on my phone. I got a parking ticket for $40. I paid online to get it over with. My bad.

Today, I made sure I paid correctly in the morning before I went to my office. When I walked to my car for lunch, an officer had already put a ticket on my windshield. I tried to show her my app, which was still on the clock for another 15 minutes, but she didn’t give a fuck.

After checking the citation and my app, the license letters and numbers didn’t match. They were wrong the whole time. I suspected they were autocorrected when I entered the letters and numbers, but I didn’t double check. I submitted the ParkMobile receipt and the citation, but the Public Safety Support Supervisor didn’t dismiss the ticket. The license letters and numbers didn’t match. He didn’t give a fuck about my error.

I am not going to court for it. I’ll just pay another $40. Life is just a bitch sometimes. I just have to suck it up and pay for my mistakes.

Last night I picked up HTML5 for Web Designers to refresh my memories. I read Jeremy Keith’s first edition when it first came out 14 years ago. Rachel Andrew’s second edition had solid updated information. I am planning to teach my two teenage kids HTML and CSS. I would like them to read this book.

Over the Memorial weekend, the airbag warning light in our 2018 Toyota Sienna LE came on again. We dropped $1,245 just two months ago to get it fixed.

On Tuesday early morning, the next day after the Memorial holiday, I brought our minivan back to Ourisman Toyota to have it checked out. Later on that day, the service rep told me the wire burned again. They were looking into the root cause of the issue.

Today, 8 days later, I still have not heard back from him. My wife told me to call him to find out the progress. I hadn’t even bothered to call. As long as they can fix the problem without anymore charges, I am in no rush. Besides, he had given me a loaner. It’s a smaller car, but we still have our 2011 Toyota Sienna 2011.

I hate dealing with car issues. They are such a pain. I have been overstressed with cars, HVAC, and other money-spending issues. Money could solve everything, but we are not rich, unfortunately. I just have to wait patiently to see what thee heck is going on.

After consuming two hotdogs at Costco last evening, I had a gout flare in my right foot. It was not a severe attack, but definitely prevented me from rollerblading for a couple of days. In addition to drinking beer or Yoju moderately (a can a day) and not avoiding beef, I had been overstressed myself out. The combination did it. I am treating the gout flare with Aleve for a couple of days. Hopefully, it will be done by Wednesday. I don’t want to take Aleve more than three days. Gout flares put me in checked. It is time to slow down the fun.

After my freshman year at La Salle University, I decided to change my major from communications to digital arts. I found out that I didn’t like public speaking; therefore, I wanted my arts to speak for me.

I checked the University of the Arts website and was impressed with its programs and students’ projects. I wanted to apply, but then I decided to stay at La Salle when some faculty members informed me that La Salle would have a brand new program called Digital Arts & Multimedia Design next year.

I just learned that UArts will close on Friday, June 7. The abrupt closure is devastating, especially for the current students. Fortunately La Salle offers personalized transfer plan for all University of the Arts students. The digital arts program at La Salle has come a long way. As one of first graduates in the DArts program 23 years ago, I am doing fine in the field I studied.

George Washington University School of Nursing is hiring a Web Lead. This position is fully remote. The pay is OK ($57,553.66 – $79,165.63), but the tuition benefit is great.

Out of curiosity, I flipped through Trí C. Trần’s Essential Vietnamese Grammar to see what he teaches English speakers our language. Then I came across his translation of Vietnamese proverbs sprinkled throughout the book. I collected them here:

Sông sâu còn có kẻ dò, Nào ai lấy thước mà đo lòng người. (Even a deep river can be fathomed by somebody, but no one could ever use a yardstick to measure the depth of the human heart.)

Uống nước nhớ nguồn (When drinking water (from a brook), you should think of where the source begins.)

Ăn trầu thì phải có vôi, Cúng rằm thì phải có xôi có chè. (Areca nuts must be chewed together with slaked lime; mid-month offerings must include sticky rice and desserts.)

Vụng múa chê đất lệch. (An unskilled dancer often blames the ground for being uneven.)

Cha mẹ nuôi con biển hồ lai láng, Con nuôi cha mẹ tính tháng tính ngày. (How much parents nourish and nurture their children is as endless as oceans and lakes, while the children calculate days and months when it’s their turn to take care of their parents.)

Ăn lấy chắc, mặc lấy bền. (Eat solid food and wear durable clothing.)

Được bữa giỗ, lỗ buổi cày. (Going to a death anniversary banquet means losing a plow day.)

Giàu thú quê không bằng ngồi lê kẻ chợ. (A wealthy person in the countryside cannot compare with one hanging around in the city.)

Trông trời cho chóng gió đông, Cho thuyền được gió, cho nhông tôi về. (I hope that the east wind will soon blow, so all the boats will sail along with it and my husband will come home.)

Thương nhau mấy núi cũng trèo, Mấy sông cũng lội, mấy đèo cũng qua. (One would climb any mountain, cross any pass and swim in any river to be with their lover.)

Trong đầm gì đẹp bằng sen, Gần bùn mà chẳng hôi tanh mùi bùn. (What other flowers are more beautiful than the lotuses in the marsh Which grow near the mud but are still good smelling?)

Ra đồng gặp vịt thì lùa, Gặp cướp thì đánh, gặp chùa thì tu. (If you happen to see a flock of ducks out in the fields, herd them; if you bump into some robbers, fight them; and if you find a temple, become a monk there.)

Bán anh em xa, mua láng giềng gần. (Sell your faraway siblings to buy some nearby neighbors.)

A handyman who did a shitty job on hooking up the bathroom-fan pipe charged $150. An HVAC technician inspected the HVAC systems charged $235. A Toyota dealer charged $1,245 to fix an airbag issue. A CMS maker charged almost $200,000 to migrate a website. Meanwhile, I make jack shit.

From fixing shit around the house and fixing the cars to paying for the kids’ tutor, piano lessons, and other activities, we spent money like it is going to rot. We might need to spend $15,000 on the new HVAC systems. The cars give me so much damn headache, but I can’t get rid of them. The house is deteriorating. My wife has always wanted to remodel the kitchen, but I just don’t justify dropping $30,000 to $50,000. Our car has been at the dealer since last Tuesday. I hope they will not charge us for what they didn’t do correctly the first time. We already dropped $1,245.

Just thinking about all this shit is stressing me the fuck out. My wife said to me, “Why are you always tired?” Because I have to deal with all of this shit so she doesn’t have to. I don’t even get the support from the person closest to me.

I just happened to come across the Georgia Tech logos. The interlocking GT looks similar to the connecting GM from the George Mason logos. GT refreshed its brand in 2021. GM refreshed its brand last month. New trend?

I made an arrangement with Mr. Điệp Trần to service our HVAC unit after he fixed the outside unit last November. Instead he inspected the units and pumped about 2 pounds of refrigerants. He charged me $235.

Our Trane systems are 16 years old. The inside unit is getting moldy. He recommends replacing both units and add UV lights to prevent mold. We’re looking at $15,000. Damn!

I am not sure if we should go ahead and drop $15,000 for a peace of mind or just ride the current systems until they die out. My wife and I still have some time to think about it.