Our 2018 Toyota Sienna LE has been residing at Ourisman Fairfax Toyota since the morning after Memorial Day, which has been almost four weeks already. I took the car back to the dealer just two months after dropping $1,245 to fix the airbag warning light issue. The issue occurred again.

Two weeks after the drop-off, an Ourisman Fairfax Toyota technician reported that there were chemical spills that melted the wire-cover plastic and the plastic inside of the door panel. The chemical was from a bug spray.

A few months ago, a bottle of Repel Insect Repellent was accidentally spilt into the passenger front-side door. The Deet in the chemical melted plastics. I filed an auto claim to our American Family Connect Property and Casualty Insurance Company. Last Tuesday, the insurance company sent an independent appraiser to the dealer to assess the issue. They are still investigating to find out if this is a wear-and-tear issue or an accidental issue, which would be covered under the comprehensive policy.

I hope they will make the decision soon. If they decline the coverage, I will have to appeal. There’s no way I am going to drop another $3,500 to fix it. At this point, I just don’t know what to do anymore. I just have to wait patiently for the insurance company.

Even though my car is at the dealer, Ourisman Fairfax Toyota has loaned me a car to get around. Mad props to them.

Over the Memorial weekend, the airbag warning light in our 2018 Toyota Sienna LE came on again. We dropped $1,245 just two months ago to get it fixed.

On Tuesday early morning, the next day after the Memorial holiday, I brought our minivan back to Ourisman Toyota to have it checked out. Later on that day, the service rep told me the wire burned again. They were looking into the root cause of the issue.

Today, 8 days later, I still have not heard back from him. My wife told me to call him to find out the progress. I hadn’t even bothered to call. As long as they can fix the problem without anymore charges, I am in no rush. Besides, he had given me a loaner. It’s a smaller car, but we still have our 2011 Toyota Sienna 2011.

I hate dealing with car issues. They are such a pain. I have been overstressed with cars, HVAC, and other money-spending issues. Money could solve everything, but we are not rich, unfortunately. I just have to wait patiently to see what thee heck is going on.

A handyman who did a shitty job on hooking up the bathroom-fan pipe charged $150. An HVAC technician inspected the HVAC systems charged $235. A Toyota dealer charged $1,245 to fix an airbag issue. A CMS maker charged almost $200,000 to migrate a website. Meanwhile, I make jack shit.

From fixing shit around the house and fixing the cars to paying for the kids’ tutor, piano lessons, and other activities, we spent money like it is going to rot. We might need to spend $15,000 on the new HVAC systems. The cars give me so much damn headache, but I can’t get rid of them. The house is deteriorating. My wife has always wanted to remodel the kitchen, but I just don’t justify dropping $30,000 to $50,000. Our car has been at the dealer since last Tuesday. I hope they will not charge us for what they didn’t do correctly the first time. We already dropped $1,245.

Just thinking about all this shit is stressing me the fuck out. My wife said to me, “Why are you always tired?” Because I have to deal with all of this shit so she doesn’t have to. I don’t even get the support from the person closest to me.

I made an arrangement with Mr. Điệp Trần to service our HVAC unit after he fixed the outside unit last November. Instead he inspected the units and pumped about 2 pounds of refrigerants. He charged me $235.

Our Trane systems are 16 years old. The inside unit is getting moldy. He recommends replacing both units and add UV lights to prevent mold. We’re looking at $15,000. Damn!

I am not sure if we should go ahead and drop $15,000 for a peace of mind or just ride the current systems until they die out. My wife and I still have some time to think about it.

Last weekend I asked Đạo and Đán to help me clean up our cars. Đạo took the vacuum and went to work. Đán, on the other hand, kept watching Youtube instead of wiping down the interior. He told me he wanted to change the cabin air filters. I told him I would let him do it but I needed to order the filters first before he opened up the glove compartment. The glove compartment in the 2011 Toyota Sienna is falling apart anyway so I didn’t mind letting him give it a shot.

I order the filters on Amazon so he could change both cars. I am glad he did because the filter in the 2011 Toyota Sienna was so dirty. I am not sure if the dealer ever changed it when I took the car in for oil change. The 2018 still looked clean, but he changed it out anyway.

I am so happy when the kids wanted to do these kind of things instead of sitting in front of their screens.

As I was getting ready for work this morning, I hit the light switch on the ceiling fan and broke the chain. After work, I opened up the canopy and tried to remove the broken chain. I messed up the whole circuit trying to put it back together. I didn’t want to waste any time so I went to Home Depot to find a replacement.

I asked one of the associates to help me find the part and he immediate told me it was only available online even though the website said at least 5 items were in store. I had to find it myself and I did.

I went home, installed the new part, and voila! It worked. I wasted almost 2 hours on this tiny job. It was a good learning experience. I will order more parts for other ceiling fans too.

Another day, another DIY. The 3 Amp Single-Pole Single Circuit Pull-Chain Switch cost $5.

It had been a year already since I installed a new water heater. As I am typing up this document, I am draining the water from the tank. Here’s my flushing process:

1. Turn off the electric power
2. Shut off the cold water valve that goes into the tank
3. Connect the hose at the bottom of the tank
4. Open the hot side faucet in the basement bathroom and kitchen sink
5. Flip up the relief valve on the tank to release air
6. Turn on the plastic knob at the bottom of the tank gently toward the left where the hose is connect it. The plastic knob should turn easily and the hose will turn with the knob. Don’t try to force it or risk breaking the plastic knob.
7. Let it drain and wait (do something else like writing this blog post
8. Check the expansion tank to make sure the water pressure matched the main water pressure, which is 48 to 50 PSI
9. Turn on the cold water valve on and off several times (once the tank is completely drained) to flush out more sediment
10. Close the valve and disconnect the hose
11. Turn the cold water valve on the tank back on
12. Flip the relief valve down once the water reached halfway or higher
13. Turn off the sink valves in the basement bathroom and kitchen
14. Turn the power back on

It was not a bad process. I will do it every year to make sure the tank is in good shape and the water is clean. If you haven’t tried it yet, check out this video.

Last Saturday, we pulled together our first community sale. A week before, I started to collect everything we hadn’t used in years including toys, books, rollerblades, bikes, helmets, vases, shoes, and everything in between. I was excited to get rid of the things that I had wanted to throw away for a while.

The sale started at 8:00 am, but I woke up around 6:00 to get everything ready. Most of the things I just wanted to give away, especially mix boxes of toys. Once I had everything set up, I asked Đạo and Đán to be in charge of the sales. They could keep whatever they sold. Only Đạo was willing to do the sales.

At 10:00 am, he made about $30. Then the rain started to pour. We had to cover everything with the tarps. The rain stopped around 11:30 am. We opened business back up, but couldn’t sell anything. We kept all the free stuff out for grab, but no one picked up anything.

On Sunday, we continued to put all the free stuff out while my wife posted a few items on Facebook’s Marketplace. We made more money through Facebook’s Marketplace than on our driveway. On Monday, I took all the unwanted boxes to Goodwill.

It felt great to be able to get rid of so much junk in our basement. For 15 years, I always dreaded all the stuff that we had collected and could not let go. I didn’t want to hurt my wife’s feelings, but I started to feel stressed out everytime I wanted to tidy up our place.

We still need to get rid of more things, but I will try to sell them through Facebook’s Marketplace. As for community sale, it was our first and our last.

After hooking up the pipes for the bathroom vent, we decided to give the attic an extra layer of fiberglass insulation. The installation process didn’t look so bad from watching this video.

It was the worst job I had ever done. I spent 4 hours yesterday crawling around the tight space full of nails on the top and dust at the bottom. Thank goodness the weather was not too hot. I finished spreading all of the insulations around 7:00 pm. Then I realized I covered both sides of the vent.

This morning, I had to crawl one more time at the edges to tuck the insulations underneath the carton vent. It took 2 more hours.

I hoped the insulations worked. It took 24 rolls at $34 per roll. The total for the materials was $816. The labor was priceless.

After hiring a handyman connecting the pipes for the bathroom fans yesterday, I noticed that when one bathroom fan was on, the air blew back to the other bathroom. I checked the fan and found out that the flapper was not closing.

Today, I decided to take the entire old fan out and install a new one. Taking out the housing was time consuming. I couldn’t remove the nails so I had to cut off the aluminum. While replacing the housing, I decided to redo what the handyman had done yesterday. He did such a shitty job connecting the 4-in pipes to the 3-in pipes. I streamlined the connection and used only 3-in pipes.

The process took almost six hours. I spent about half of that on the attic. Thanks goodness the weather was not that hot yet. I spent about $100 on the materials including the new fan. It was a good learning experience.

I am not sure if I will use the handyman again. I thought he was a friend since we liked to drink and I took him out to eat and drink before, but I guess money comes first.